Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Hello out there.....

Well, not sure there is anyone left in blogland these days. Many, many of the blogs that I use to read have gone the way of the dinosaur. Guess everyone is now on facebook.

Well you say, you haven't posted since June and infrequently before that. True. Life was a little hectic before that. Yes, yes I know every one's is. But I was busy in ways I was cautious about sharing.

I had decided in March that I had had enough and was going to file for divorce. Spent the spring looking for houses with several adamant rules that limited my choices. In late June I told my spouse. Amazing that men don't realize whats right under their noses. He "didn't realize I was that unhappy". Anyways - have you seen the movie "Fireproof"? It works. "Love Dare" works. (Alan did it, I was done.)

We are still together. Marriage is better than it ever has been and I actually like and love my husband. He is a changed man.

In September I had elective surgery and am currently off on medical. REALLY enjoying being home. So much so I don't want to go back to work. But reality is I have bills to pay and college tuition around the corner and retirement to save for so not working isn't an option.

So that's the update in a nutshell.

Chat soon

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Good to hear from you! I'm glad everything is working out for you. I am slowly getting back to blogging--it's been a rough summer chez Hasbu but we all are well now.